After reading Xiaxue's blog, http://xiaxue.blogspot.com/2003/05/today-i-am-gonna-write-abt-all-molest.html, about molesting, I just thought that I should blog about it also. haha.
Although I have never experienced such extreme case like her (and some other readers) but I often get this kind of DISGUSTING looks from DISGUSTING MEN. I repeat, I never get molested physically and I wish I won't! But sometimes I got this another form of harrasment which is visual molestation. You know, the perverted look that you can guess what he's thinking about you. Yucks!
I always wonder why men are designed like that, why they have to relate everything to sex, I really can't understand that part. And why some men assume that I will EVER think the same way. Come on, just because we exchange looks, WHICH IS ALWAYS COINCIDENTALLY (argh, why my eyes keeps wondering around wherever I am, always look around etc that'w why I often exchange looks with strangers, must be genetics I guess) it doesn't mean that I have special feeling for you. Yucks! Just thinking that they're thinking about me is kinda giving me some disgust.
Not to mention those OB (orang bangla), but one cleaning service in my office. OMG! Yucks yucks yucks! The only terrible thing of my fantastic internship experience will be this yucks yucks. Actually I'm sitting near all those good looking guys (3 angmohs and 1 hot filipino guy haha) but this cleaner often show up in my floor and always look at me. I know he purposely wandering around my desk to destroy my concentration, going here and there with chin up like he's CEO, taking longer time when he's cleaning my bin and talk to the hot guys sitting near me just to be around my desk (like i wish that?! come on dont spoil my best moment with the hotties!).
I'm just trying to be honest here. Frankly speaking, he's short, not good looking, not hot at all, not rich and not lucky also I guess (if not maybe he can pursue higher education). And some more I got my serious crush already so (I really want to avoid talking about social class here) there's no way I could (or INTEND) give him second look. I wish I can show him my together-moment with my crush so that he get to big picture of everything haha. So please stop spoil the best moments of my summer period. ORQ is really the best place to work at, just that maybe they need to teach the cleaners NOT TRY to flirt with interns. Yucks. OK, I just waste my time writing about it here.
For other these kind of disgusting looks from strangers, I sometimes find it in public transportation like bus or mrt. I always avoid MRT wherever possible (since I can save money also) cause I just hate crowded places, but I have to take bus to go everywhere of course.
Come to think about it, since I live near science park, there are some bus services that I use to take : 10, 30, 51, 143 and 188. I always prefer 10 than the rest because I find its passengers are in the sense "cleaner". Service 10 starts from Kent Ridge terminal and go along Pasir Panjang Road (around 10 busstops from my place). So usually, when I get in they're only "clean" people there (as KR is still considered NUS and pasir panjang neigborhood is quite an elite one, and they will mostly go to CBD which is quite an elite workplace itself). I rarely find any OB or some perverted uncle there (thanks God that I need to take only bus 10 to my office now).
In contrast, I try to avoid services 30, 51 and 143, especially 30. This service starts from Boonlay which is err......not so clean perhaps? and go through Jurong East there where the last time I go there, I found a lot of OB there. Service 51 and 143 also starts from Jurong East. Why I avoid these services? Because usually there'll be a lot of people inside the bus already before I get in and not rarely I found some potential-to-be-visual-molesters there. So rather than having uncomfortable 30-50 mins bus rides, struggling to avoid those nasty looks, wait for other services is better I guess.
So in general I try to avoid place like Jurong East, Boonlay cause a lot of OB hanging around there. Not that I'm racist. Just that it's common perception in Singapore that they always have these perverted thoughts and keep trying to molest girls in every chance. Just disgusting.
Why men cant think like women? We may be quite emotional sometimes or overwhelmed by feelings, but we NEVER imagine having sex or some other perverted thoughts to strangers! Now that I'm mature enough (17) I start to understand why my friends (which is older) thought that I'm weird when I told them that boyfriends are only the 'special' ones that we ask to accompany us to shopping malls, cinemas etc. Now I know that they wouldn't think the same way to us. I just 'learn' this kind of thing recently--after too much reading of some blogs lol
Advice for some guys. So guys, get real! Some women will never be yours so just forget her!
Although I have never experienced such extreme case like her (and some other readers) but I often get this kind of DISGUSTING looks from DISGUSTING MEN. I repeat, I never get molested physically and I wish I won't! But sometimes I got this another form of harrasment which is visual molestation. You know, the perverted look that you can guess what he's thinking about you. Yucks!
I always wonder why men are designed like that, why they have to relate everything to sex, I really can't understand that part. And why some men assume that I will EVER think the same way. Come on, just because we exchange looks, WHICH IS ALWAYS COINCIDENTALLY (argh, why my eyes keeps wondering around wherever I am, always look around etc that'w why I often exchange looks with strangers, must be genetics I guess) it doesn't mean that I have special feeling for you. Yucks! Just thinking that they're thinking about me is kinda giving me some disgust.
Not to mention those OB (orang bangla), but one cleaning service in my office. OMG! Yucks yucks yucks! The only terrible thing of my fantastic internship experience will be this yucks yucks. Actually I'm sitting near all those good looking guys (3 angmohs and 1 hot filipino guy haha) but this cleaner often show up in my floor and always look at me. I know he purposely wandering around my desk to destroy my concentration, going here and there with chin up like he's CEO, taking longer time when he's cleaning my bin and talk to the hot guys sitting near me just to be around my desk (like i wish that?! come on dont spoil my best moment with the hotties!).
I'm just trying to be honest here. Frankly speaking, he's short, not good looking, not hot at all, not rich and not lucky also I guess (if not maybe he can pursue higher education). And some more I got my serious crush already so (I really want to avoid talking about social class here) there's no way I could (or INTEND) give him second look. I wish I can show him my together-moment with my crush so that he get to big picture of everything haha. So please stop spoil the best moments of my summer period. ORQ is really the best place to work at, just that maybe they need to teach the cleaners NOT TRY to flirt with interns. Yucks. OK, I just waste my time writing about it here.
For other these kind of disgusting looks from strangers, I sometimes find it in public transportation like bus or mrt. I always avoid MRT wherever possible (since I can save money also) cause I just hate crowded places, but I have to take bus to go everywhere of course.
Come to think about it, since I live near science park, there are some bus services that I use to take : 10, 30, 51, 143 and 188. I always prefer 10 than the rest because I find its passengers are in the sense "cleaner". Service 10 starts from Kent Ridge terminal and go along Pasir Panjang Road (around 10 busstops from my place). So usually, when I get in they're only "clean" people there (as KR is still considered NUS and pasir panjang neigborhood is quite an elite one, and they will mostly go to CBD which is quite an elite workplace itself). I rarely find any OB or some perverted uncle there (thanks God that I need to take only bus 10 to my office now).
In contrast, I try to avoid services 30, 51 and 143, especially 30. This service starts from Boonlay which is err......not so clean perhaps? and go through Jurong East there where the last time I go there, I found a lot of OB there. Service 51 and 143 also starts from Jurong East. Why I avoid these services? Because usually there'll be a lot of people inside the bus already before I get in and not rarely I found some potential-to-be-visual-molesters there. So rather than having uncomfortable 30-50 mins bus rides, struggling to avoid those nasty looks, wait for other services is better I guess.
So in general I try to avoid place like Jurong East, Boonlay cause a lot of OB hanging around there. Not that I'm racist. Just that it's common perception in Singapore that they always have these perverted thoughts and keep trying to molest girls in every chance. Just disgusting.
Why men cant think like women? We may be quite emotional sometimes or overwhelmed by feelings, but we NEVER imagine having sex or some other perverted thoughts to strangers! Now that I'm mature enough (17) I start to understand why my friends (which is older) thought that I'm weird when I told them that boyfriends are only the 'special' ones that we ask to accompany us to shopping malls, cinemas etc. Now I know that they wouldn't think the same way to us. I just 'learn' this kind of thing recently--after too much reading of some blogs lol
Advice for some guys. So guys, get real! Some women will never be yours so just forget her!
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